Anonymous : when did you start being a sub? don't you feel violated at all?..
only recently I’ve realized I want more than just like the little bit of domination most guys provide in the bedroom. the whole BDSM isn’t about violation. It’s a trust and honesty relationship where I offer myself to someone and they take care of me and let me grow and develop by their side. They don’t just tie you up in bed, you get assigned daily tasks such as having their name written on you or wearing a collar of some sort, or taking photos of yourself, exercising every day and being healthy. Your primary goal is to please Him, you put his satisfaction before yours and you get rewarded but if you misbehave you get punished